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Blog to offer hope,comfort and encouragement to the hurting, ill, grieving  by Debbie Kay from Hope For The Broken Hearted.

Our Aversion To Personal Renewal is Irresponsible by Nathan Peterson

Today we welcome back as our guest blogger, Nathan Peterson from the band, Hello Industry.   As the parents of multiple young children, including one who is terminally ill, Nathan and his wife Heather know from first hand experience the necessity for finding time for personal renewal. (They fully understand how challenging it is to find that time as well!)

It’s so much easier for me to overwork - to spend what I don’t have of myself, going into emotional debt - than it is for me to allow time and space for personal renewal. “There’s no time for that. I’ll fall behind. We’ll run out of money.” Etc.

American culture’s addiction to spending money we don’t have is part of a bigger issue, part of which is also an addiction to spending *time and energy* we don’t have. There’s a fear behind all of it, of falling behind.

Living this way is exhausting. We’re always behind. Always in debt. Always trying to catch up. Unable to be truly generous (even in our giving, we’re taking). It isn’t really living at all.

We’re in debt. We don’t need to try harder. We don’t need to spend *more*. We need to do less, offer less, rest more, and build a consistent discipline of personal renewal.

If that makes us feel guilty then it’s time to change our mindset.

We have to tell ourselves the truth: Our aversion to personal renewal is not admirable - it’s irresponsible. If we continue with this pattern, we’ll eventually have nothing of value to offer.

Quote: “Sing off the interest, never the principal.” - Alison Meuth

 

NATHAN IS A SINGER, SONGWRITER, HUSBAND, FATHER, HUMAN BEING.
@nathanpeterson facebookhelloindustry.comHello Industry fb

 

Here are the links to Debbie Kay's other blogs: Daily Prayer... Note to self: Daily Reminders For The Broken Hearted...

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